Monday, April 20, 2009

Parlez vous...

So the kids have decided to teach their dad some French before we go to Tahiti this summer. I think Tehani is a little more into this teaching assignment than Kobe is. Not sure if it is because she is able to remember more of the things she learns in class or if it's because it makes her feel like she can be a bossy teacher like her Auntie Cynthia :) Anyway, tonight's lesson consisted of:
  • Petit pois or...green peas. My absolute least favorite vegetable in the whole world. When I was little my dad used to spell my name on my plate with peas to torture me for not eating them. (Someone should have called DCSF!)

  • Le lait or...milk. I think this was Kobe's word because he actually drinks the stuff. I will not be surprised when Tehani is older if she is a vegan. We have a hard time getting her to eat--or drink--anything animal related. (Am I a bad mom if I tell her that hamburgers grow on trees?!?)

  • Deja vu or...deja vu. Not sure if they learned this as part of their food lesson or what.

So if Norm gets separated from his "translators" while in Tahiti at least he can order a glass of milk with a side of peas and tell the natives that he thinks he has been there before....

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

The Prime Meridian

A few weeks ago, the kids and I went to see a matinee of Race to Witch Mountain (that's what happens when you let the kids pic the flick!) Anyway, I ran into an old friend that asked about why we decided to send our kids to Meridian. We're definitely not rich (that's the first question people usually ask when they find out the kiddos go to a private school :) and it was really quite by accident that we even found out about the school in the first place.

When I went back to work a few years ago, we were left with the decision of trying to figure out what to do with Tehani since she wasn’t in school yet. I’d been staying home with the kids at the time and hadn’t even planned on going back to the tv station yet (that’s a whole ‘nother story!) so I was scrambling to find daycare. Somehow I found out that Meridian offers all day kindergarten AND that they had a later cut-off date for turning five meaning that Tehani could start school that year even though she wasn’t turning five until later in Sept. Good-bye, daycare. Hello Kindergarten!! (In my mind it wasn’t “costing” us anything because I was simply taking the money I would have paid to the daycare and giving it to Meridian :)

Anyway, our original plan was always to just send Tehani there for one year. Then we’d transfer her to the local public where Kobe was in 1st grade. (Those of you that have been to our house know we are right across the street from a school) It was a very simple plan—until Tehani actually started going to Meridian and we could see the difference in the education she was getting!! Her classes were tiny--and I’m not just talking about the kids. It also helped that she had a fabulous teacher (Believe me, I love my kids but wrangling a room full of 5 year olds all day long is not my idea of fun!) And while I know Kobe was getting the basics at his school, Tehani was getting a lot of extras—foreign language, drama, art, dance, etc.

Norm was instantly sold—he wanted both kids to attend Meridian. I was sold as well, but I’m also the one that balances our checkbook. I didn’t see how we could afford to send both kids to school there. At the time, Meridian had a few partial “scholarships” for new students so the next year Kobe was able to start 2nd grade as a Meridian Mongoose as well (don’t ask me how they decided to choose a mongoose as their school mascot!)

It was a stretch for us financially. Don’t get me wrong, Meridian’s tuition is a steal when compared to other private schools. And I can think of a million other things that I could do with their tuition money--buy myself a whole new wardrobe, finish our basement, finally put up a fence in our backyard…but I can honestly say that the education they’re receiving has been worth every penny! (I’m just counting on the fact that when they are grown and rich, I will be able to guilt them into taking care of Norm and I in our old age—or at least paying for our nursing home!)

So from French class (the kids start a foreign language in first grade), to learning how to ballroom dance (Yes, Kobe is dancing with a girl in that photo), to super high test scores, we’ve found our Prime Meridian. Go Meridian Mongeese!!

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Happy Easter

From The Tevaga's

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Mean Girls

So I got an email from Tehani's teacher the other day that some of the girls in class are not being nice to each other. Unfortunately for us, Tehani was on the "not being nice" end. I was mortified--and of course immediatley forwarded the teacher's email on to my sister for some words of encouragement and moral support.

I was hoping for a "You're not a bad mom Laura, I promise" or maybe "I'm sure she's just going through a phase." Cynthia was a teacher after all so I run any school related things by her for teacherly advice. Cynthia replied by sending me one suggested remedy to the problem...

Dear Teacher:
I am very sorry for the behavior of my daughter, and it will stop immediately. We will be taking care of this "Polynesian style". Please ignore any bruises and bloodiness that you see on our daughter over the next few weeks. This should surely cure her behavior. Thank you for making us aware of this situation.


Not quite the answer I was looking for but it did make me laugh. So Friday after school, the other moms and I met with the teacher to discuss what we can do to help our daughters get along better. I thought that I would have until when my kids get into junior high to get ready for all of the catty games and craziness that girls are known for (I was a girl once--I know how mean girls can be.) Well, the meeting went well and Tehani and I have talked a lot about this since then. She even came and showed me an apology note she made today. I guess it's actually a little more like a ransom note since the words are all spelled out with cut out letters...
i'M SoRrY tHaT i saiD
mEaN StUfF tO yOu
TeHaNi

I guess its a start. Wish me luck (I think I'm going to need it!)

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Can you say OCD?

So my sister and I like to tease each other about our OCD tendencies. Growing up with Crazy J (aka: our mom) there was no chance of us NOT growing up with some of her obsessive compulsive ailments. In our house, it was required that you be able to see vaccum lines in the carpet at all times and there was no such thing as doing the dirty dishes later. My mom also doesn't believe in letting the dishes air dry (we didn't have a dishwasher--unless you count us kids!) So now that Cynthia and I are grown and have families of our own (to control :) it would only be natural that some of these obsessions would begin to surface...

Well, apparently the fruit doesn't fall far from the OCD tree. Tehani and I were cleaning her bathroom the other day when I noticed she was messing around with the toilet paper holder. When I asked what she was doing, she explained that SOMEONE had put the roll of toilet paper in backwards and she was fixing it!

Grandma would be so proud!! Next Tehani will probably start getting after Kobe about not putting the toothpaste lid back on. In the meantime, we'll have to pay better attention when we are replacing rolls of toilet paper.